the only hope I can see currently is that some Transgender individuals are beginning to be accepted. If it was seen more often, it would likely reduce prejudice etc. As it’s forcing most CrossDressers to stay in the dark, therefore it is not known or understood by most people. #CROSSDRESSERS TUMBLR HOW TO#It is said to “be the change you want to see in the world” however with societies views on CrossDressing I really have no idea what could even be done or how to even start. I do not feel safe talking about it with someone who knows in a public place, which is still very isolating. So even though they know and I’m with them, I’m still hiding it. It may also simply be a result of prejudice, and they may think they know all the answers already where in actual fact it’s unique to every individual.Įven when I want to talk about it with someone who knows, I have to wait until I can talk to them privately to avoid being overheard by others. This means you have to take time to explain your personal reasons behind it. If it is accepted, they may not even ask what dressing means to you or any other questions like that as the fact that society drives you to approach it one-on-one makes it seem that your sensitive about it therefore they do not want to ask anything that may be too personal. It is best told one-to-one and even that is hard, you cannot be aware of how they will respond. Due to the way it is viewed by society it cannot be simply told to someone like it could most other hobbies. I do know I would like my CrossDressing to be a lot more social and known. I also think that clothing should be masculine or feminine, so individuals can wear what suits their personality, not clothing simply assigned to their gender. However the fact that fashion is 'mens’ and 'women’s’ really gets to me in a way, it’s more accepting for a woman to be masculine than it is for a man to be feminine. It’s not another persona or a way of escaping for me, it’s a way of expressing more of who I am. It’s not a form of escapism or another persona, it’s another image of who I am. When I dress up I’m expressing my natural femininity as an image, my feminine personality. Most of it is also simply complements on how I look dressed up, and not directly about me as a person. It was also amazing being dressed and having a social aspect to it, at home it is very isolating and the only social aspect I get is online and mostly anonymous. That put a huge smile on my face and is probably the happiest moment I’ve ever experienced whilst dressed. I want more from my dressing however I don’t know what that is, I’ve thought about the idea of modelling ever since Cindy said I would be great at it. However back at home I’m hiding in the bathroom trying to get as many pictures as possible late at night, which just isn’t enjoyable for me anymore. The most ‘at home’ I have ever felt with my hobby has been with Cindy, as it is an accepting environment. Especially as every item I buy doesn’t even get worn for even an hour a month, it just doesn’t seem worth it. I was constantly buying new clothes, wigs and shoes to keep things ‘new’, this is not what I want from my hobby. It’s made me realise that I want more out of it, I’ve been taking pictures hidden in the bathroom for too long. I’ve just had no desire to dress for quite a while now, and I do not know when I will next dress in my own clothes or home.Įver since visiting Cindy the first time I have thought differently about CrossDressing, and I’m glad. I do still have pictures to post from BWBG and I still love dressing. I would like to apologise for my absence from CrossDressing and posting on this blog.
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